Doing The Opposite Of Your Mistakes

 A problem I've been struggling with lately is falling into the same trap of constantly making the same mistakes over and over again without failure of trying to change up my tactics. Doing this has definitely brought me a lot of dissatisfaction in all honesty as well as humbleness by consistently failing.

Since it is summer, I found myself posting on social media a lot mainly the art I've been creating on Instagram and Deviantart. A lot of people on Deviantart seem to enjoy my art, however, on my personal Instagram I have a bad habit of taking the number of likes I get too seriously so I parted ways with my previous bad habits and do the exact opposite by not using Instagram. The result, I could not have imagined how useful I was able to use that time to exercise, brainstorm, spend time with friends, make plans with friends, set up an art commission, and just be in an overall good mood. 

I originally got this idea of opposites from listening to a self-development podcast where I discovered that if men approached women by doing the opposite of what they usually do which usually involves actually being confident, striking up a conversation, and actually not trying to pedestal the woman. This is when men started to see improvements in attracting women. After listening to that, I began to wonder what areas of life we can apply this too which surprisingly be applied to just about everything. 

Let me elaborate, if you've failed multiple times at a task. Try the opposite. Still not seeing results change your approach. If that fails, there will always be an opposite to that too. Your options in this life are endless. 

Welcome to the RPG called real life. Let's make great things of it!

Placeit - Gaming Logo Maker for an RPG Guild

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