How To Know When You Are With The Right People

One night, I found myself pondering whether I had been making the right choices in life. There I was wandering the library close to after hours searching for answers to my problems hoping the answer would pop up in front of me. I soon realized the answer had been staring at me in the face all along. The key was to examine who is around me on a day to day basis and ask myself, does this person align with my goals and values?

Obviously no one can match your goals and values 100% so it's important to take note of who is meeting at least partial of them and if you believe that they are still pushing you more towards your goals rather than holding you back. For me, I examined the people around me and asked myself how these people I've been surrounding myself daily with have been literally supporting me unconditionally and how they would also accept me for who I am. Are you comfortable around the people in your life?

Many of us force relationships upon ourself that can honestly be toxic in the long run. It's important to take time out every once in a while to assess the value your friends are adding to your life. The best people push you to be better and even make a living with your daily life. They are willing to accept criticism and change when needed. They treat you like family as if everything you and your friends own is shared as if you are one community supporting one another. These my friends are the right people.

The right people may not have the most ideal appearance, however, they make up for it with their internal character and at the end of the day that is the thing we should truly value the most. The presence of the right people in our lives whether they be friends or family.

During these difficult times in life, it's important to take some time out to identify the right and wrong people in your life in order to ensure that you are allocating your time with the right people. Keep chasing your dreams!

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